The buildup to afirst dateis simultaneously the best and worst feeling.

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve played the field or what your prior relationships were like.

“How do we keep the conversation flowing?”

Couple smiling and dining together

“What’s my escape plan if I’m not feeling it?”

Having zero chemistry and awkward conversations are 100% valid concerns.

But these aren’t the only things you should be looking out for.

Couple dining outside

In the video, Hussey suggests paying close attention to whether their actions match their words.

To do that, just look at how they interact with other people.

“And it’s like well, okay.

Your generosity isn’t coming out in this moment.”

If their actions don’t line up with how they portrayed themselves, that’s a red flag.