The future is only here when Google comes up with a map to navigate relationships for us.

Until then, Gary Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages” may be of some help.

Ask them what they loved most about the date.

A couple laughs on the couch at their phone

Meaningful eye-contact, switched-off phones and staying present while they’re speaking may all help with that.

While Chapman’s theory isn’t scientific, it is a phenomenon that clearly resonates with people.

Calendar with the date for Valentine’s day