On March 27, 1969, Pauley Perrette was born in New Orleans, Lousiana.

After two years of dating, the young couple wed.

The marriage quickly became tumultuous, andPerrettesuffered years of abuse at the hands of Shivers.

Pauley Perrette on red carpet

After less than four years as husband and wife, Perrette filed for divorce in 2004.

By 2006, the marriage had been annulled (viaThe Blast.)

The pair dated for several years before Bosman asked Perrette for her hand in marriage in 2008.

Pauley Perrette and ex husband

It was that year that the actress began dating fellow actor Thomas Arklie (viaWho Dated Who).

Arklie proposed to Perrette after one year of dating, making him the actress’s third fiance.

While same-sex marriage has since been legalized, the pair remains engaged with no wedding plans on the horizon.

Pauley Perrette shows off a tattoo

Paulie Perrette posing with her fiance